Saturday, April 30, 2011

5 Careers, 5 Women, 5 Questions...Britni Weston


Britni Weston-Marketing Manager, Holt Renfrew

1) What is something you love about your current position and what is something you loathe?

I love that everyday is different from the last and even though I apply the same process to many parts of my job, the outcome is always different depending on the brand, product and customer.  I love the brands I work with and it's exciting and rewarding to turn a simple idea into something spectacular.  Something I loathe is that it never seems to end!! The fashion industry is fast paced, always changing and operates 7 days a week so it's difficult to find downtime and separate work from the rest of my life.

2) Where do you get your wonderful sense of style from, who inspires you?

I'd describe my personal style as modern classic.  I've often felt that I'm living in the wrong era and get my inspiration from style icons like Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly and Jackie-O.  I love anything that is feminine, sophisticated, timeless and iconic - Chanel, Prada, Oscar de la Renta and always amongst my favourites!  My wardrobe staples are dresses, coats and blazers, wedges or riding boots (depending on the season), and oversized sunglasses and handbags.  I love shopping and finding that "perfect item", but I try to invest in timeless classics rather than trends or this season's must-haves.  And as anyone at Holt can attest - I'm a sucker for anything with a puff sleeve and a bow!!

3) What is your favorite weekend ritual, do you do anything outside of work during the week?

My job occupies most of life from Mon-Fri so weekends are filled with friends, family and "me" time.  I enjoy time spent with friends, watching movies, shopping, Sunday family dinners and I think a big glass of red wine with my girlfriends is the perfect finish to the week!  To relax I like painting, hot yoga, listening to music or just reading the Sunday paper with a great cup of coffee - and I'd never turn down a day at the spa! 

4) Why did you choose the career you did; who would you love to meet one day (has that person indirectly influenced your career choices)?  

My university guidance counselor told me to "pick something you love and find a way to get paid to do it".  When asked this question, my passion for fashion and fascination with the luxury goods industry rose to the top of the list and I never looked back.  I've been very fortunate during my career at Harrods, LVMH and Holt Renfrew to work on some incredible events/projects and meet some truly amazing people.  My passion for the industry continues to grow and today, I can truly say that I love what I do.  There are so many designers, authors and mentors that have influenced my career but someone that stands out... (as cliche as it may be) is Gabrielle "Coco" Chanel.  Unfortunately, I'll never get a chance to meet her but I've always been fascinated by Coco's personal story, her rise to the top of the fashion industry and with that, her ability to single-handedly change the image and perception of fashion.  Women across the globe owe her a lot for fusing strength, independence and style into what fashion is today. 

5) What is one piece of advice you would give to friends/readers who are struggling in their careers?

Always put yourself first and do what makes you happy.  I think it's easy in business today to get caught up in what you "should" be doing, instead of what you "want" to do.  Passion is something that can't be taught and when you truly love what you do, you'll always be more successful in the long run.

Friday, April 29, 2011

5 Careers, 5 Women, 5 Questions...Julie Bedford


Julie Bedford: Lawyer, Fraser Milner Casgrain LLP
1) What is something you love about your current position and what is something you loathe?
My favourite aspect of my work is probably the intellectual challenge… I have always been motivated to engage in difficult mental tasks by the promise of the end result of deeper understanding and knowledge. This is something I love and I’m happy to strive for… I like to know things, and even more so, I like to figure things out. As child, I did logic puzzles all the time, finding them more fun than drawing or colouring books (not to mention much easier for me to succeed at)

I feel the most satisfaction when I’m working in the field of Cleantech (an umbrella term that encompasses renewable energy and fuels as well as a variety of clean/green technologies)… When I do this work I feel that I’m helping improve upon the world, rather than maintain the status quo, and ultimately, I think this is of the utmost importance.

I also love the people I work with, which I think is important always, but especially important at a job that is often twice the time commitment of a regular 9-5…. which segues nicely into my answer to part two of this question… I don’t love the hours, and sometimes I just may loathe them… I find that when I’m really busy at work, the little bit of time I spend not at the office, I feel physically and mentally exhausted and can be pretty irritable with those that I’m closest to as a result.
2) Where do you get your wonderful sense of style from, who inspires you?
First off, thanks for calling my sense of style “wonderful”… you’re too sweet ;)
I’m a bit of a chameleon and my taste changes constantly along with my environment. The fluidity of my style is easily evidenced when looking through old photos and seeing the entirely different looks I’ve embraced over the years, some of which are incredibly laughable. I was recently reminded of some of my earlier undergrad years, when my makeshift homemade outfits matched my three-foot long dreadlocked hair, and I would cut up, and attempt to refashion, random Value Village purchases, like pillowcases and tablecloths as clothing!! And I remember unpacking my suitcase, just a couple of years ago, the night I arrived home from a few month stay in East Africa, and, to my surprise, finding the African printed Moo Moos and tailored shirt and skirt outfits made much less sense to me in Calgary than they had only two short days earlier in Dar es Salaam…
These days, my style has certainly tamed. I take fashion cues from all around me, largely without my own recognition or knowledge. I note the clothing women are wearing in magazines (strangely perhaps, GQ is my fav), television and movies, and even walking through the +15’s in Calgary. Sarah Jessica Parker, Blake Lively, and Zooey Deschanel are the probably celebs that I model looks after the most.
Of course, my various lady friends’ impeccable senses of style influence me greatly, especially that of my sister, with whom I’m very close. Her and I live together and share most everything, which is a brilliant way to double one’s wardrobe.
I love accessories, necklaces especially. Lately, my favorite outfits are simple and flowing, with one stand out piece…. And when I dress myself, I often have in mind the idea of an antique broach… in hopes I end up resembling one in some way. 
3) What is your favorite weekend ritual, do you do anything outside of work during the week?

I exercise pretty regularly, switching it up among jogging, cycling, weights, yoga, and occasionally a game of squash with my boyfriend… I love being active outdoors, hiking especially, but admittedly, I don’t do much of this these days.
Socially, I have two favourite pastimes, dinner parties and dance parties. I live in a vegan household with my sister, her husband, and my 10-year-old nephew, and we love to entertain guests and feed people. If I weren’t a lawyer, I think my family and I would own and operate a delicious little vegan restaurant.
When I can steal away from work early on a Friday afternoon, I also try to volunteer at the Rescue and Sanctuary for Threatened Animals (R.A.S.T.A), spending a few hours outside, cleaning stalls, feeding and doing chores around this wonderful volunteer run farm. I also volunteer extensively with Fig Tree Foundation, which is an umbrella organization that services a number of international development agencies. I coordinate various initiatives for Fig Tree, within its mandate of fostering cooperation and collaboration between non-profits with a view to supporting sustainable development initiatives.
When I want to turn off my brain, I turn to Internet television and have a pretty serious love/hate relationship with America’s Next Top Model (as well as Canada’s, Britain’s, New Zealand’s, AND Australia’s… it’s a little embarrassing). I also love love love to watch nature shows, especially those narrated by David Attenborough.
4) Why did you choose the career you did; who would you love to meet one day (has that person indirectly influenced your career choices)?  
I’m not 100% convinced that I chose to be a lawyer; rather, I feel that a series of significant coincidences, accidentally developed skills and the aforementioned strange affiliation for logic chose my career for me. Although, when I was a child, I was often told, whilst incessantly arguing some senseless point as though it mattered, that I should be a lawyer when I “grow up” as at least then I would be paid to be so argumentative.
I’m really struggling to decide on an answer for a person that I would love to meet one day, and at first, I was assuming that I’m allowed to choose someone from any time in history. This was overwhelming. I’ve decided to limit myself to currently living people to narrow the choices and help me decide. With this, I’m going to go with Christopher Hitchens and Malcolm Gladwell, likely because these are the two thinkers I’ve been the most impressed with recently. I’m in awe of both of these men and their ability to articulate ideas in both writing and speech. Reasoning their way through complexities and presenting them clearly, concisely, and convincingly. And literally, I think Malcolm Gladwell could make ANY topic fascinating. Any one.
5) What is one piece of advice you would give to friends/readers who are struggling in their careers?
Cliché though it is, I think some of the best career advice I’ve ever received went something like this: Find what it is that you love to do then figure out how to get people to pay you to do that thing. I recognize both of these things can be pretty hard to do… but it’s certainly worth a shot. Life is so very short, and the more time we spend watching the clock, waiting for time to pass, wishing it would hurry by, the less we get of this gift we were given.
Finally, it’s important to me that at least some of the things I do are focused on making the world a better place… I consider this both a joy and a responsibility, having been born in arguably the best time and place in history. Our opportunities are endless, and with this comes a responsibility to do more than just soak in all the good around us… we need to be present and aware and devote some of our skills to giving back to our wonderful world.

5 Careers, 5 Women, 5 Questions...Noor Mubarak Al-Sabah



Noor Mubarak Al-Sabah: AlOthman Fashion Director

1) What is something you love about your current position and what is something you loathe?

I absolutely love the fast pace and constant change and surprises that happen in fashion. Every few months there are new collections to view, new trends to work, and new designers to discover. It makes day to day work always interesting without being predictable.
I loathe the brash competition between clients over dresses. I’m sure it happens all over the world, but in Kuwait, it gets extremely competitive as to who wears which piece first, sometimes I just want to tell them- “Hey, its just a dress.”

2) Where do you get your wonderful sense of style from, who inspires you?
My style is a true result of my mood and state of mind. When I am feeling sexy, I’ll wear a femme fatale silhouette, when I’m feeling troubled I’ll layer several pieces over each other to distract from my mind, and if I’m feeling playful I’ll be a little daring with my clothes and try something new.
Having said that, I still do have some style icons such as Anna Dello Russo, Bianca Jagger, and Sophia Loren.

3) What is your favorite weekend ritual, do you do anything outside of work during the week?
I love to workout; it really relieves my stress. Trying anything from biking, running, kayaking, or boxing. I love being on the sea, on boats just cruising. But I will admit, nothing beats lazing with a fantastic film, sushi, and ice cream.

4) Why did you choose the career you did; who would you love to meet one day (has that person indirectly influenced your career choices)?  

I always loved fashion, since I was a little girl I’ve been sketching gowns and shoes. I also grew up in a household with one very fashionable mother and four sisters, so it seemed somewhat inevitable. I never really thought I would find this position in Kuwait, but it turns out that there is so much potential here as it is yet an unsaturated market.
I would love to meet the late Isabella Blow as she was so essential with discovering talents such as Alexander McQueen and Philip Treacy. She also seemed to have a dynamic personality with both glamour and terror that took over her fabulous hat wearing head that led her to suicide. When will there be a film about her?

5) What is one piece of advice you would give to friends/readers who are struggling in their careers?

I am blessed to be working in the industry that energizes and excites me, but still there are days when I feel overwhelmed. My best advice is to always remind yourself of your goals and dreams; this will keep you going on and on. Also, remember that you are your own best tool, so look fabulous, be driven, be courageous, and take risks. People will admire you for your accomplishments and you will take a lead among others.

5 Careers, 5 Women, 5 Questions...Beth Abbott



Beth Abbott- Operating Room Registered Nurse
1) What is something you love about your current position and what is something you loathe?
I absolutely love working in a profession where I truly feel that I help make a difference in people’s lives on a daily basis.  People come into the operating room ‘broken’ and leave with a new hip, reconstructed breasts, or new hope with the removal of a potentially catastrophic tumour.   Every day I am learning new things and taking part in state-of- the- art surgeries which have a profound impact on patient’s lives.
I loathe getting up every day at 5:30am!  Also, I have to admit that as a nurse you get two 30minute breaks during a shift, and I am such a slow eater that I find it hard to ever have a proper meal!
2) Where do you get your wonderful sense of style from, who inspires you?
Well... I do enjoy watching the red carpet at the Oscars, Grammies etc, and I am known to always have a good magazine (such as Vogue) on hand, but honestly I am very much inspired by everyday people in my life.  I admire those that have their own style and embrace fashion risks.  Gillian, my little sister is never afraid to try a new haircut and can look incredibly young and girly one day, but look like a sexy vixen the next.  Another example is my friend Cheryl who often sports a bohemian style that I believe was highly influenced by her time in Israel.  She is always comfortable in her own skin because she wears what she wants and wears it well- wink!  She is not afraid of bright colors and vintage jewellery.  My hope is that my style is just that... my own!  Lately I have been embracing the laid back casual look that I fell for while travelling in Australia- hence the long hippy hair that I have at the moment!

3) What is your favorite weekend ritual, do you do anything outside of work during the week?
I enjoy working out at the Glencoe Club, but these days I mostly love doing yoga with good friends.  There is something about practicing next to the people you love.  I am also always down for a coffee date with friends or a good movie.  Lately, I have been thinking of new hobbies such as an acting course etc that I can take on as an extra dimension in my life (but I will have to keep you posted on that one).  And finally, I would have to say that I love shopping- but really what girl doesn’t?!
4) Why did you choose the career you did; who would you love to meet one day (has that person indirectly influenced your career choices)? 
 I chose to be a nurse because I love science, especially the human sciences, and I have always had a desire to help others and give back.  I ended up in the operating room specifically because of my passion for anatomy and physiology as well as the appeal of a team environment in the OR (surgeons, anaesthesiologists, RT’s, and nurses).  Within nursing there are many options to work part time/casual which is a factor that I took into consideration as I hope to have a family in the future.  Finally, I think it is exciting that I work in a profession that can be taken essentially anywhere in the world.  I am happy in Calgary right now, however, it thrills me that I will never be “stuck” here and I have many options.
Honestly I do not really have a specific role model in my field; however I enjoy meeting new people and learning new operating techniques.
5) What is one piece of advice you would give to friends/readers who are struggling in their careers?
My dad, who has had a very successful career and is someone I look up to and respect, he always told my sisters and I “it does not matter what you choose to do with your lives, if you like it, you will be successful.”  He has never pushed us to follow in his footsteps and has accepted us regardless of our somewhat “offbeat” ideas and potential career choices.  My advice would be just that... if you are happy and you like what you do, you will find success.  If not, it is never too late to take a different path and as hard as it may seem do not be afraid to take that risk.  I cannot say that I will be an operating room nurse for the rest of my life, or and RN for that matter, but for now I am fulfilled and I can only wish the same for you!
Love you all, have a fabulous weekend and I cant wait to feature you lovely's on the marriedtogeorge.blog soon!

5 Careers, 5 Women, 5 Questions... Ashley Feader



Ashley Feader: Account Manager, Small Commercial, Jones Brown Inc. Insurance Brokerage 


1) What is something you love about your current position and what is something you loathe? 
I really like “owning” my own book of business and being able to decide the strategic direction of my work. I enjoy helping clients find solutions that help them run their businesses. Most small business owners are uneducated when it comes to insurance, so it is my job to help them understand a very important part of business planning. I really enjoy my team here at Jones Brown as well – great people help a great deal!
Some of the things that I could do without in my position are clients with unrealistic expectations (impossible to avoid in any industry though), spending my work day at a computer all day long, the limited creativity in the role, and the fact that the product I sell is something that everyone needs but no one wants to pay for! 
The work-life balance is great in this industry and allows parents to see their kids, take them to soccer, and be home for dinner. The compensation is decent and there is tremendous opportunity to advance if you are dedicated. Insurance is definitely not a dream job for most people, but it definitely has some perks.

2) Where do you get your wonderful sense of style from and who inspires you?
I change my mind on this daily. I appreciate so many different style orientations that I have always found it hard to stick to one (or to pick the one that is the best for me). I love understated elegance, hidden sex appeal, smart dressing, and well-made clothes. I don’t like things that necessarily appeal to the masses all the time. I admire Gwyneth Paltrow for her elegance and simplicity, Ralph Lauren’s sense of luxury (his clothes always tell a story of who the woman is, where she is from, and his clothes are WEARABLE), Elle Macpherson’s never-ending youthful style and free spirit (who WOULDN’T want to look like that at 50?), Theory’s ability to provide variation in its “uniform” of a good suit and good basics, Lanvin, Chloe….I could go on and on, but when I think of who inspires me fashion-wise, it always comes down to the personality of the woman wearing the clothes – I love Parisian women, New Yorkers, the developing style in Hong Kong and China, the Sartorialist, and Stockholm Street Style – real woman are the real inspirations!

3) What is your favorite weekend ritual, do you do anything outside of work during the week?
I’m a home-body. Period. I love coming home to a good glass of wine and a good meal with my hubby during the week – nothing beats that. Weekends are spent transforming our home, dreaming about vacations and travel plans, playing with our puppy, having dinner or coffee with friends, and sleeping in. Some think it’s boring, but this is my idea of heaven.

4) Why did you choose the career you did; who would you love to meet one day (has that person indirectly influenced your career choices)?  
Like most people in insurance, I fell into my career. I was looking for a job in the middle of the recession in 2008 and I was hired in the industry. The rest is history. I would absolutely love to meet Nancy Meyers (film director – Something’s Gotta Give, It’s Complicated, Father of the Bride, etc.). The film industry has always interested me, and Nancy has found a way to combine her love of interior design with filmmaking. That combination just may be my dream job! 
I can’t say that anything or anyone influenced my career choice other than the need to get a job and make money after school. Sigh….

5) What is one piece of advice you would give to friends/readers who are struggling in their careers?
Make sure you really know who you are and what you want before you switch careers. I would absolutely love to be an interior designer, filmmaker, writer, etc., but I know that I value my stability, my income, and my free time too much at this point. Maybe one day I’ll have the opportunity to pursue something else without having to sacrifice my life, but I am not there yet. It isn’t sexy or exciting, but you really need to look at your career on paper. Your dream job may fulfill you professionally, but what will it do to your livelihood and your relationships? Most of us can’t have it all, and it’s about deciding what is most important to you.